Mis à jour : 12 mai 2020
There comes a Time in Life when you find yourself confronted to a tough situation and you have the impression that God has abandoned you . Your mind is having such a hard time dealing with an unfortunate situation in your life, that you wish you could turn back the hands of time and erase certain episodes .You keep wondering why God allowed you to go through this trial.But what if there is no valid reason on why we go through some stages in Life?What if it’s just an obligatory passage point that is meant to teach us some lessons and allow us to grow stronger ?
We have to find a way to ACCEPT the things we have no control over,the sanitary crisis(COVID-19) is a perfect example of that . Nobody is to blame for your situation and no matter what you are going through, ACCEPTING it is the first step to your serenity.The second one is to never lose Hope that the tables will turn.Because they will eventually.It never rains forever.And Even After a torrential rain a rainbow comes out.
Sometimes I feel like living in a web generation is a curse, especially for young people who are lacking self confidence.When you go on Social media,everybody appears to be richer than you,healthier& fit,happily married with kids,traveling the world.Meanwhile you just feel trapped in a dead-end situation.Each day for you looks the same because you don’t see the end of the tunnel,you don’t see a perspective of a brighter future.
You should know that in Life, we don’t always get what we want when we want but we surely get what we deserve when the timing is right.So don’t compare your Life to those of people you know nothing about.You don’t know anything about their stories and their battles. Some people actually worked hard to get to the top but some did the dirty work and are still paying the price just to keep up with appearances.
You can’t see the sweat or the very good surgery behind that picture,you only see a « perfect » body.
You can’t see the hard work or the shenanigans behind that photo, you only see wealth and luxury.
You can’t tell if it’s real happiness or lots of tears,you only see a beautiful family portrait.
You don’t see the struggles or the scams to afford this beautiful trip.You only see holiday pictures.
There are a lot of secrets that a simple picture cannot reveal.Real Life is not always « Glamorous » ~MrsKiss Kay
If at times you feel envious,do not stress yourself over it.It’s not that serious to be envious.ENVY is a normal feeling.It only becomes poisonous when you don’t use that energy in a positive way. You use it, not as a stepping stone but as a weapon of mass destruction.May Envy inspire you to work on yourself and chart YOUR path to Success.Work hard in order to have YOUR own accomplishements instead of lurking on the ones of others.
You are not alone in this battle. We all go through moments of doubt, but if you look beyond the surface, you will discover the collateral beauty of the difficult situation you’re in.
Refusing the Acceptance process can be toxic.The more you fail to accept your reality,the more you engage in a negative spiral that will lead you to your own loss. Refusing to accept your situation can distort your judgment and distract you from the positive things in your life. When you focus too much on the things you DON’T have, you end up taking the things you DO have for granted.Focus on what you have instead of what you don’t.Change your perspective TODAY!
I’m so sorry you’ re going through whatever it is you’re going through.I’m so sorry you have to deal with uncomfortable questions on your situation.But let me tell you that once your blessing will come, I will feel more sorry for the ones who doubted you.Because your light will shine so bright that it will dazzle them.While you wait for your moment, aknowledge that there is always a worse case scenario,learn to be thankful for your LIFE,learn to be thankful for all your acomplishements.
Set yourself free by accepting what you are the least proud of in your Life and be determined to do better ~ MrsKiss Kay
The best fuel you can have in Life is Faith.Never lose Faith because the best is yet to come ~MrsKiss Kay
We go through different stages in Life.Accept the stage you’re at now. But Don’t let it define you.See it as a metro station.you may have stopped at that station for a reason but it doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the ride.
"God, grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference." The Serenity Prayer by Reinhold Neibuhr